Published on May 4, 2005 By tweedz In Personal Relationships
For the guys out there. You think you know us but you don't. Most guys out there think all girls are these fragile beings whose feelings get hurt in an istant. I am here to tell you at least for me that isn't true. I wish I could find someone who would listen to me who would understand that I am not your typical female. I am however a female who wants someone who I can talk to and who can make me laugh. That above all else is extremely important. And I think that is under rated today in relationships. If you can't have fun with that special person then you shouldn't be with them. Someone who makes you laugh and who you can be stupid with when need be is key. Your relationship will be a lot more exciting if you can be like that with someone.

zuma

Comments
on May 04, 2005
long ago I got over the "fragile female myth" My mate, is my best friend, I do ALL things with her, if she ain't invited, I ain't goin.
on May 04, 2005
I wish I could find someone who would listen to me who would understand that I am not your typical female.


Wish I knew what the hell a typical female is; I've never met one yet.
on May 04, 2005
MasonM gets an insightful!
on May 04, 2005
Heh, any guy you says he knows what goes on in a woman's mind is either deluded or lying.
on May 04, 2005
Most guys out there think all girls are these fragile beings whose feelings get hurt in an istant.


While I wouldn't consider myself fragile, I am sensitive. I think femininity is something to be appreciated not something to be wiped away. Our sensitivity, our intuition, our softness...these are beautiful things.

am however a female who wants someone who I can talk to and who can make me laugh. That above all else is extremely important. And I think that is under rated today in relationships.


I agree with you here. Laughter and enjoyment of one another's company is a major (though not the only) component of a good relationship. The memory of the joy from the good times keeps you together during the rough times.

Interesting article.
on May 04, 2005
I think a "typical" female would be the more emotional type that needs someone to talk to and likes shoes, a lot. I'm not sure if there are any totally "typical" females anymore...at least not the ones I know, they are "interesting" to say the least. I will say that most girls, if not all, like to have someone who makes them laugh and listens to them, that's the only common thing I can find in all girls. Well, who doesn't like to laugh?

~Zoo
on May 04, 2005
Wow I am impressed at all the comments so soon.!!! It was insightful to read all of your responses. I am a female who gets a long with guys better than girls. I don't like dealing with all the petty bitching, lying and deceptiveness that goes on between them. Moderateman that is the same way that I am my best friend was a guy but then the girlfriend came into the picture and that changed everything unfortunately. Mason M I believe the typical female is a girl who worries about every little thing when it comes to men. I seem to see a lot of that in some of my female conterparts. Amoung other things. Texas Wahine, I don't believe that sensetivity is a bad thing or femeninity but when they are a constant strain on a relationship I don't understand why men put up with it half the time. Typical females are becoming more and more outdated I believe. But I think that guys also have to realize that more modern women have guys as friends or guys as roommates. And it is hard for the female to be themselves when a person is jelous all the time. But that is my opinion and I am interested to hear more from anyone out there.

zuma